tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76856087886725334012024-03-04T22:49:47.794-07:00Intern 101Intern 101 is a source for new architectural professionals for job and career advice. Hopefully, I can pull back the curtain on the mystery that is the business of architecture and provide this profession's future with job and career advice. At the very least, we can commiserate over a drink. Make mine a double.Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.comBlogger351125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-83717114118265699612014-11-06T19:23:00.002-07:002014-11-06T19:23:42.442-07:00Articulating anger...and finding a way out<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I'm still here, still an architect, and still angry. A recent comment stated "it's not the profession, it's the people." There's a lot of truth in that statement. I think this profession warps people, but it's worse when it warps someone who was already a four-alarm-fire-flaming douche. And it's even worse when it warps a good, sane person and turns them into said type of douche.<br />
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I've been continually silent because it feels like everything I have to say is either a) raging against the machine, and b) isn't really an architecture problem but a white-collar worker in 21st-century America problem. I suppose both of those are true, and yet that doesn't make them less important. I'm furious when I watch a group of so-called seasoned design professionals refuse to think futuristically or at least creatively about how they run their businesses and their piece of the profession. And while I can't change that 100% right now, I can do something.<br />
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<i>Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about the things that matter</i>.<br />
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I'm trying to find ways to articulate my thoughts, suggestions, advice, questions, and general pot-stirring commentary in a succinct manner. I've been undergoing a real change in how I spend my days and energy in the past year, and I still have work to do fixing my 31 Flavors of Shit (especially personally), so I'm trying to figure out how to write without giving myself another task/cross to bear.<br />
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But I'm here, with you, and still ultimately feel the same way: it's a good profession, but it's sick, and it CAN get better, if we try.</div>
Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-57525162728955630892014-08-18T18:41:00.002-06:002014-08-18T18:41:52.207-06:00Still here, still angry<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I haven't had much to say lately. Well, actually, I've had lots to say, but it's all been angry and cranky. I'm still frustrated with my profession. I'm beyond weary of a profession that cuts its own throat by underbidding each other and undercharging for their work. I'm worn out by ridiculous deadlines and horrible communication and poor coordination and at least a hundred other things. I'm still working out how to improve it, or at least my part in it. I'm torn between wanting to tell interns the truth about what I've seen, and knowing that as a upper-level manager at a firm, everything and anything I write on a blog can be held against me.</span><br />
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Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-35672171574233490682014-05-02T17:34:00.000-06:002014-05-02T17:34:25.611-06:00Coming up out of the trough of depression and burnout<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I'm so thankful for the occasional but regular comment and cheers I'm getting from you all. It's been entirely too long since I last posted, and if you all disappeared and started reading other better and more informative architectural blogs, I wouldn't be upset at all.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It's been a long haul since the burnout really kicked in late last summer. The short version of the story is this: After a few months of struggling, weeping in the bathroom at work, and barely able to tolerate other human beings at work, I finally went on antidepressants. The meds began lifting me out of my fog, and a good therapist has been helping me peel back the layers of beliefs, attitudes, and behaviors that have led me to a place of burnout and hopelessness. I am finally coming up out of the deep underwater trench that is depression and burnout, like a submarine from the Marianas Trench.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Part of my rise from the depths originated in seeing Brene Brown's TED Talks on vulnerability, courage, and authenticity. I read a couple of her books and found that they and her TED Talks resonated deeply with me. Reading these, going on meds, and committing to good therapy brought me to a few of my own professional and personal breakdowns...um, I mean, spiritual awakenings:</span><br />
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<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I've been living unsustainably energy-wise. Writing two blogs, serving on several committees at work, keeping up a speaking gig on the side, and doing almost full-time billable work on projects is unsustainable. Maybe it's my age (I turned 38 in Fall 2013), or maybe it's that all my busyness has kept the depression at bay, but it's time to accept my limits on time and energy. It's also time that I hold those boundaries with others, including my bosses.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">My firm really does like, value, and support me. When I melted down last summer/fall, many of the senior leaders and partners rallied around me and asked "how can we help?" When I just folded in my chair and cried, they just sat with me and said, "Whatever you need, we'll help. We want you here for the long run." When I finally decided what I wanted, they said, "Great, let's do it" and did everything they could to deliver. I've been living my life for nearly 14 years like an intern just out of school trying to prove myself, I didn't realize that I'd already proven myself.</span></li>
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Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-6389764592400807872013-12-28T08:57:00.000-07:002013-12-28T08:57:00.220-07:00When it's deeper than burnout<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">During these weeks (who am I kidding? months) I've been quiet on the interwebs, I came to realize that my apathy comingled with fury was beyond burnout. It became clear even after a long, wonderful vacation with my husband that what I've been experiencing was deeper than burnout--it was full-on, irrefutable, un-ignorable, in-your-face-like-a-can-of-mace depression. A fair amount of October and November were spent adjusting to an antidepressant and letting my coworkers know what was going on with me. Because I do in fact work with human beings, they understood and agreed to help adjust my workload and schedule accordingly. This wasn't just "Lulu is feeling kinda burned out"; this was now a medical condition that, while it would pass eventually with medication and therapy, it also must legally be accommodated and ethically and emotionally cannot be ignored.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I also spent the fall working on some project process research for the firm for which I work, and I still had to fulfill my managerial duties of participating in staff performance reviews and some HR tasks. These chores kept me busy enough that I didn't feel totally useless and gave me a reason to come to work every day while the lack of serotonin in my brain told me that work was bullshit and life was bullshit and there's no point in anything anyway. Fortunately, I have several amazing and wonderful relatives and coworkers and friends who helped me combat these despondent voices. I cannot thank them enough.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Assembling coherent, helpful blog posts has been tough for me these past few months, and it's still a struggle. While I'm still not done wrestling with this condition, I at least have the clarity to see when my angry apathy is the depression talking versus when it's truly work that has me pissed off. (One sign that it's depression: if I say I hate my job and someone asks what I would rather do instead, and I say "Nothing. Nothing sounds good." That's the lack of serotonin talking.) Things are looking up professionally; I have some professional speaking engagements coming up in the spring, and I'll be working with some different project teams in my office to see if that helps with my <i>meh</i>ness. I promised myself I'd try again at this blog. I hope I'm not done trying to help and mentor others wherever I can, but if I've given all I can, then I have to accept that. I've found in the last few months that I was right about some things, and I've been dead wrong about some other things. I hope to have to courage to share these things with you all in 2014. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Til then, have a lovely holiday season, and here's to a new year.</span><br />
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Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-64524076931464069262013-09-23T04:58:00.000-06:002013-09-23T04:58:00.491-06:00Is there a place for the quiet leader?<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Part of the discussions my firm is having about the next ten years involves leadership. Some of the conversations are basic--who's retiring, who's staying, who's advancing or should be advanced, and so on. Some of these conversations are more abstract and revolve around leadership itself. We've had previous discussions about what does it take to reach certain titles in our office, but there's still something lacking, something not quite right about those rules.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Many of our firm's, and indeed our society's, hallmarks of leadership include what might be considered extroverted behaviors and traits. Speaking up (and often), being visible, tooting your own horn, being involved in multiple visible roles, etc. are often considered what it takes to be a "leader" in our culture. But if we are to believe the research presented in<i><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Quiet-Power-Introverts-World-Talking/dp/0307352153/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1379278224&sr=8-1&keywords=quiet+the+power+of+introverts+in+a+world+that+can%27t+stop+talking"> Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can't Stop Talking</a></i> (and I do believe it myself), we need quiet, more reserved, and less "out there" leaders as much as we do the social butterfly multitaskers that we've rewarded with leadership roles and power for so long.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I'm often thought of as an extrovert, but the truth is I prefer to work alone or with only one or two more people, and I require a lot of alone time to recover from public speaking and teaching engagements. I consider myself just barely an extrovert, but I also find myself getting louder and more involved and vocal when something really matters to me. Even now while trying to slog through my burnout and get some much-needed rest, I find myself compelled to be involved in these long-range planning efforts going on in my firm right now. This is due in part to the fact that it's something I've wanted to be involved in for a long time, and it's also due to the fact that whenever something needs to be done as part of this planning, there is only a handful of people willing to do it...so it falls into my lap or the lap of one of a few colleagues. Extroversion through coercion, so it seems.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So I do wonder: is there a place for the quiet leader, the monotasker, the thoughtful sage in lieu of the verbose savior? And can architecture make that kind of leader work both in its firms and as its face in society?</span>Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-41506725135922723212013-09-16T05:40:00.000-06:002013-09-16T05:40:00.140-06:00Random thoughts on architectural work<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I still don't have anything lengthy and coherent to blog, but I have had some musings I thought I'd share. Our firm has been going through some major changes regarding how we manage and treat employees and how we're going to move forward for the next ten years, and the conversations that are causing and are caused by these changes have given me some random insights and/or ideas. (Or maybe they're just brain droppings.)</span><br />
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<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">If you can't get right what I've given you so far, chances are good that I'm not going to give you new or different stuff to do.</span></li>
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<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The biggest skill that young architects and interns (as well as the rest of the world) isn't learning before they hit the work world is how to communicate clearly and civilly. Your bosses didn't learn it either, but we have to start somewhere with good communication in the workplace.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Good communication doesn't mean "always being nice" or never calling people on poor performance. It means that when you do call out bad performance, it's about the performance and not the person.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Cultural change takes time. Even when an entire organization is on board with changing the way it works, it can still take 3-5 years to see the changes and get them firmly entrenched in daily office culture. It's still worth doing; just be patient.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">"People want change, but people don't want to be changed." --Winston Churchill</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">No matter how much you try to help make things better, there are always going to be a few people who aren't going to be happy. It's still worth making things better.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">There are two sides to the happiness at work coin. One side is that you have to be able to do the things you enjoy doing so that you can stand coming to work every day. The other side is that you have to do the crappy stuff sometimes in order to get the job done. Not every day should be a horrible grind, but not every day can be sunshine and flowers.</span></li>
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Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-87419775376775429922013-08-24T17:42:00.001-06:002013-08-24T17:42:12.371-06:00Update on Lulu, the Duchess of Burnout<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">First off, thanks to everyone for the kind emails and comments; they're appreciated and I'm thankful that anyone is moved to comment or email at all. Many of my posts go uncommented except for the occasional Anonymous spam comment saying "i much like this and have made bookmarked it" or some other such nonsense. So, thanks again.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">To address my burnout, I realized that while I do need some rest, I also do better when I have something to do. I created a project for myself that involved reviewing my office's processes for planning and staffing projects, and my two primary bosses agreed that this would be worth doing. I'll be working only on this project until late September, at which point I'm going on a two-week trip out of the country for a nice, long vacation. When I return, my bosses and I will assess what I'll be doing next based on how much of my analysis/project I'll be able to finish by the time I leave. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In the meantime, I've been pondering a variety of professional and personal topics, none of which I can discuss here with any coherency or brevity, but I'm working on it. I've broken a few of my own rules lately, including that I've actually told several of my colleagues and interns/architects about the nature of my burnout. I've realized that the old "stiff upper lip" behavior in the guise of being "professional" only works to a point in the 21st-century workplace. This is just one of several big shifts I've had in my thinking lately, and it's taking some time to get used to the idea that the way I've worked, acted, and behaved in the past several years may not be serving me well anymore.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Having said all that, I should let you all know that I'm not able to redline any resumes right now. I have received a couple of questions about what to do with some ethical and professional workplace questions, which I'll get to in due time. Thanks again for hanging in there with me, and I hope to get back on track in the next few weeks.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>(Note: someone asked recently about whether you can include work you've done at your present/previous firm into your own portfolio. I would advise against bringing a lot with you, but photos of the project along with a description of the project would be okay, especially if they're photos you can take yourself or get from an online source, like a web article about the project. Bring photos from your employer as a last resort. Don't bring plans or details--if you have more than four years' experience, you're supposed to know how to detail stuff, so showing it would be redundant.)</i></span>Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-48473788595518049312013-07-29T05:08:00.000-06:002013-07-29T05:08:00.302-06:00This is burnout.<div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I feel like I owe you all an explanation and perhaps even an apology for the poverty of content in recent months. My writing has been half-hearted and hollow, even platitude-filled to the point of being trite. You all deserve good, thoughtful writing and discussions on meaningful topics, and I haven't really been providing that. You deserve better, and I ask your patience as I work towards whatever that better is.</span></div>
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Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-53935542264949663102013-07-15T05:11:00.000-06:002013-07-15T05:11:00.686-06:00Work-life balance: a sine curve, not a scale<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I just took a week off from work. I almost made it the whole week without checking my email, but I caved on day 5 when I realized I had 200 emails in my inbox. Fortunately, a fair amount of them were things like "there are cookies in the break room" and "the copier is up/down/depressed/homocidal". I was able to handle anything that truly needed my attention easily with email, and everything else appeared to be well in hand, thanks to the great interns that work on my team.<br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">This week off is part of my summer-of-scaling-back, which was preceded by the months of October 2012-May 2013 being fast and furious (sans Vin Diesel) with deadlines and workload. It was during that time that I remember a phenomenon that is arguably particular to architecture. It's the <span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">phenomenon of our work-life balance. The general world of white-collar work gives us this image of work-life balance as if it were scales, like the sign for the zodiac sign of Libra: always in perfect balance and harmony. We're told that every day is balance: some work, some play, some chores, some sleep.</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">After my major deadlines passed in May, I pulled my boss aside and let him know I needed some rest this summer, and he concurred and has been supporting me in that. The project and the team are in a place where I can do this, and even better, they can get rest too. (I wasn't the only one who was worn out.) So I'm planning some vacations and time off this summer with my husband to make up for answering work email on our anniversary trip in February.</span></span><br />
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Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-75192332598202435302013-07-01T05:15:00.000-06:002013-07-01T05:15:00.374-06:00The pitfalls of informality<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The workplace--architectural and otherwise--has changed radically in terms of formality in the last twenty or so years. Suits and ties have given way to khakis and jeans, typed letters are being replaced by emails, and even language itself has slid into a casual territory. Colleagues call each other "Dave" and "Becky" instead of "Mr. Swenson" and "Ms. McNeal". "Sir" and "ma'am" have been replaced with "yeah", "hey man", "yo, lady", "sure thing", and "no problem". </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">While there's a certain ease and indeed relief to be associated with this new informality, let us not follow that slippery slope down to an absence of respect, for our clients, our consultants, and our colleagues. A client recently emailed an intern and me for a rendering image to be included in some marketing and fundraising materials. The intern sent back the image to the client with just this in the body of the email: "Here you go." </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This is not your aunt or your friend. That's right--your client is not your friend, they're your acquaintance at best. You don't get falling-down drunk in front of them, you don't make yo-mama jokes to them, and you definitely don't dash off three words to them in an email. The intern and I discussed this, and the next email in which the client asked for something got this response from her: "Mark, attached is the file you requested. Please let us know if you need anything else. Thanks, Sandy." Much better.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The formality--even and especially from interns--reminds my intern's client that even with her young age, she went to college, is a properly-trained professional, and she respects the fact that he cuts the checks that keep our lights on and doors open. Furthermore, an email that looks like someone took the time to write actual, coherent sentences subtly tells the client that the writer also takes his/her time when working on other things, like floor plans and details, renderings, meeting notes, and so on. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Casualness in the workplace is overall a good move. Keeping a little formality in your business writing is also a good move, and it's just good business.</span>Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-24422862945390629312013-06-24T05:37:00.000-06:002013-06-24T05:37:02.709-06:00Thoughts on the 2013 AIA National Convention<br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The 2013 AIA National Convention was this past weekend in Denver, and overall, to me, it was...okay. The seminars early in the weekend, like on Thursday and on Friday morning, seemed like basic information--marketing 101, firm management 101, all style and little substance. The Friday afternoon and Saturday seminars seemed a little gutsier: a conversation (with an actual lawyer!) about the grey areas of architectural ethics, a discussion of how AIA Continuing Education is lacking in how it teaches its profession (and some of the steps it's taking to improve, as well as things we can do to make our in-house education better), and a fantastic discussion with some emerging professionals on how to really engage the future of the architectural profession.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It was that last seminar that made the weekend worthwhile. It wasn't just that four sharp young professionals stood on a stage and said "here's how to engage Millennials", it was that they had the guts to lay out the bleak economic realities of being an intern in 2013--the rising cost of education; the starting pay that doesn't match the second mortgage that is college debt; and the fact that "normal" for interns is a lot of job hopping, working in related fields, and doing contract work instead of having a nice and steady gig (like I've had for thirteen years--I know I've been fortunate and atypical). I also appreciated that the overall message was that "emerging professionals" are a) a tough bunch to pin down due to the fact that "emerging" covers a 26-year range of experience and age, and b) they're just like everyone else. They want to learn, want to participate, and want to make a contribution to a firm and to society. It was the perfect way to cap off what started out as a bland and uninspiring weekend of an old, white profession patting itself on the back for still being kinda-sorta-almost-relevant.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">To all interns out there: it's getting better. Stay with me. I need you to stay in this profession and make it better, kinder, more profitable, and more sustainable (both in terms of the environment and life-work balance). There aren't enough Gen Xers like me to go around to help lead firms, so you're going to have to step up and step into the roles we need you to play. And I know you'll do so with grace and vigor, with both substance and style.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I hated group work in school and in college. I hated the fact that I seemed to get grouped up with a bunch of people who were either clueless or incompetent, or worse, they outright wanted to team up with me because they figured they could coast while I busted my ass to get my/our A. Funny that I now work in a profession that is nothing but teamwork. There's a design team in my office, consisting of landscape architects, interior designers, planners, exterior designers and architects, and project managers. There's a full design team outside my office, consisting of various engineers and other consultants. There's a team of clients and users that we have to work with to get the project designed. And then there's a team of contractors and subcontractors who actually use my drawings to build the stuff the client asked for and we drew.</span></div>
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Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-20461461078434486652013-06-03T05:28:00.000-06:002013-06-03T05:28:00.080-06:00And now, to purge the burnout<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I must start by thanking everyone who continues to come here week after week and read whatever I've written (or in the last few weeks, not written). I truly appreciate the questions and thoughts I receive. I must confess though that in the press of the last few months, I've found myself increasingly burned out. One of my friends who went to grad school to be a therapist called my recent state "c<a href="http://www.livestrong.com/article/148589-cns-fatigue-symptoms/">entral nervous system fatigue or overload</a>". It's a condition he sees in elite athletes and bodybuilders; the patient works out so much and doesn't allow time to recover, and consequently they exhaust easily in terms of physical and mental performance. The same can happen when you work week after week and month after month at 50 or so hours a week. I have interns in my office right now who are younger than me but experiencing this as well. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">What it takes to exhaust you is based on the individual. I can do more than some people my age (37) and less than others. I could do more when I was 30 than I can now. However, the most important two things to remember about fatigue at work are these:</span><br />
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<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Tell someone that this is happening and take steps to get rest as soon as you can. Your manager can't help you unless s/he knows you're drowning in work or stress. They may be able to get you help or help you prioritize what needs to be done when so that you don't feel overwhelmed. Furthermore, give yourself the physical and mental breaks you need as soon as you can get them. I didn't follow that advice, and by the end of my deadlines, I was shouting the f-word at my boss. Not something I recommend,</span></li>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I'll do my best to keep posting advice, thoughts, and questions for y'all as I'm able this summer, but I do need some rest. I don't want to just slap any old bunch of writing up here in the name of posting every week. I want to do well thought out and researched posts for y'all, and that takes energy. And I do hope all of you have some fun trips or breaks planned for the summer!</span></div>
Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-16624250943210884892013-05-20T05:30:00.000-06:002013-05-20T05:30:00.823-06:00More random weblinks for the end of a busy month<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">As my project team and I wrap up a deadline-laden May, I'm finding it hard to focus and bring it into the home stretch. So the focus of today's random weblink post is, well, focus, along with a side order of motivation, in the creative world.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Motivating creative people--or any people for that matter--is a lot tougher than it sounds, says<a href="http://www.wishfulthinking.co.uk/2008/10/29/motivate-creative-people/"> this coach</a>. I intend to read his entire series on the different types of motivation and how that works with creative work (when I finally am not working every weekend). So far, I find myself nodding along with the idea that, while you can't really "motivate" people, you can sure as hell demotivate them. That's good advice for me as a manager.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Depending on the task, being "unfocused" can help, such as when<a href="http://www.nature.com/news/brain-scans-of-rappers-shed-light-on-creativity-1.11835"> trying to improvise lyrics in a rap</a>. Allowing the brain to relax can allow for even better results in creative attempts and results.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Speaking of results, we get results based on what we focus on. <a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/meg_jay_why_30_is_not_the_new_20.html">This TED talk </a>from a psychologist who works mostly with 20-somethings discusses how important it is that people make the most of their 20s--develop a life, career, interests, relationships, good habits, etc.--because it sets the stage for the rest of their lives.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">And finally, a reminder from this Buddhist blogger that <a href="http://tinybuddha.com/quotes/tiny-wisdom-what-we-pay-attention-to/">what we focus on</a> and give our energy to is what we become.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Is it finally a good time to be an architect? Maybe, says <a href="http://www.chicagobusiness.com/article/20130413/ISSUE01/304139988/is-it-finally-a-good-time-to-be-an-architect">this article.</a></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In other news, <a href="http://www.forbes.com/sites/daviddisalvo/2012/12/23/the-top-10-brain-science-and-psychology-stories-of-2012/">compliments may have a similar effect on a person as giving them cash</a>. While on the face of it, that doesn't sounds like good news, it means that your firm can't just throw money at you and hope you'll be quiet and happy--they're actually going to have to treat you like a human being. Money in the form of raises, bonuses, and additional paid time off can bost morale, but it only goes so far. Research shows that at some point, people feel like they're being bought off, and morale dips again.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Please forgive the recent silence, especially because it's going to be quiet here for all of May. My project has three deadlines in the next five weeks, so I'm pretty slammed of late. (And my staff, God bless them, have been handling the relentless deadlines pretty well, even when I haven't been terribly pleasant.) So instead of making a real post, I'm just going to post a few interesting links now and then.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Today's theme: abandonment (since that's what I'm going to have to do to Intern 101 until my deadlines are over in June):</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">First, actual abandoned architectural structures that look like<a href="http://www.cracked.com/article_20357_7-modern-ghost-towns-that-look-like-sci-fi-movies.html/?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=fanpage&utm_campaign=new+article&wa_ibsrc=fanpage/"> something out of a sci-fi movi</a>e.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Speaking of abandoned buildings, this photographer takes pictures of<a href="http://www.cruzine.com/2013/02/11/abandoned-buildings-matthias-haker/"> elegant, abandoned buildings in Europe </a>and produces some amazing images.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Then, a <a href="http://www.highroydshospital.com/">British mental hospital</a> that was closed and is being <a href="http://www.highroyds.co.uk/">turned into apartments</a>--talk about adaptive reuse! But is this the <a href="http://www.thetelegraphandargus.co.uk/archive/2003/02/06/Bradford+District+Archive/8018246.Developers_unveil_their_grand_plans__for_the_High_Royds_hospital_site/">right reuse for this type of building</a>, especially one with a mixed history in a community?</span></div>
Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-36476695091642566682013-04-15T05:42:00.000-06:002013-04-15T05:42:00.518-06:00Of Millennials and mentorship<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">A recent online article in Bloomberg BusinessWeek related the differences i<a href="http://www.businessweek.com/articles/2013-03-14/the-misery-of-mentoring-millennials">n mentoring the Millennial generation</a>. The article stated some familiar yawn-inducing ground (the younger generation uses multiple mentors to get ahead instead of sticking with one main person with whom to connect) and brought up some new problems for the mentor-mentee relationship (the mentee is better at certain tasks, especially those pertaining to technology, than the mentor, and all the mentor's clients want to work with the mentee instead). It was a decent article, to be fair, but like many articles about generational differences, it makes me want to barf in my recycling bin.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">When I discussed mentoring interns at the 2010 and 2011 national AIA conventions, one of the primary points of my presentation is that, while generation can affect a person's behavior more than race or gender, it is one's humanity that affects one most of all. Mentors in this article who felt irritated by a mentee's behavior in a meeting or calling or texting them late at night regarding routine questions seemed to be complaining that it was the mentee's youth that made this a problem. I dare say the root of the problem is a basic one that plagues even my colleagues from my same generation (Gen X, to be precise): not everyone was raised at your house. I've had interns look bored and text their friends in meetings with consultants, and I've had other interns sit in those same kinds of meetings and take notes, ask questions, and contribute ideas. These interns all had similar levels of experience--the difference was the kind of person they were and the kind of intern--and architect--they wanted to be.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">To me, it makes absolute sense for an intern--and in fact anyone regardless of age--to have more than one mentor in one's career. If an intern was thinking about changing jobs, I might not be the best person to talk to about that, since I've only worked at one firm for 13 years. However, if an intern had an ethical situation to deal with, I might be just the right person. Further, in a work world that is increasingly about who you know, then it makes sense to just know more people. Putting all your eggs in one mentorship basket is a pretty risky bet.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Overall, it sounds to me like Millennials are embracing a changing work world while older workers (including many Gen Xers) are not, and there's a little bitterness there, perhaps being taken out on the Millennials as a bit of shooting the messenger. However, there are still "old-school" habits and practices that still work in the workplace, like not bothering your coworkers on the weekends, paying attention in meetings, dressing professionally, and listening in a conversation instead of waiting for your turn to speak. These are things that appeal not to Boomers or Xers or Millennials, but to <b>humans.</b></span>Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-36557128138934051392013-04-08T09:24:00.000-06:002013-04-08T09:24:00.047-06:00A note about external links from Intern 101<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I recently had a request for the link to the 2011 AIA Compensation Report be reconnected/updated. This was a link provided by a commenter, not by me, so I really can't fix it. When readers and commenters send me external links, I check them at the time of posting to make sure they work, but I must rely on whoever posted the link to maintain it. (In the meantime, those looking for the report are probably better off looking for the 2012 version. It'll be more relevant to your present situation.)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I do appreciate outside links sent to me by readers. When you find something funny, interesting, or helpful, I check the link out for myself before posting it (or not). Feel free to send along those items, but please note that I can't maintain links that are posted in the blog--I can only change where a piece of hyperlinked text goes. If you find a non-functioning link on the sidebar of this blog, do let me know. (And if you have a corrected link, it's very much appreciated.)</span>Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-35345818948583124532013-04-01T05:08:00.000-06:002013-04-01T05:08:00.637-06:00Lulu's Mailbag: How do I include actual projects in my resume?<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Most of the questions I get regarding resumes involves folks coming out of school or with little professional experience. However, J. asks a good question:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Including information about work you've done in a firm is one of the top things, if not the most important thing behind your contact info, to include on a resume. A few general tips:</span><br />
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<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Include the built work on both your resume and portfolio. You can highlight one or more projects on your resume when you mention where you've been working. On the resume, provide name and location of project as well as general information (2,300-sf bank, 40-bed hospital, etc.) and then describe your role on the project team. On the portfolio, you can go into more detail about the project (2,300-sf bank in the heart of historic downtown Austin, TX with a focus on achieving LEED Platinum, etc.)</span></li>
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Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-21378218097913744552013-03-25T05:34:00.000-06:002013-03-25T05:34:01.988-06:00Lulu's Mailbag: How to leave a job on good terms<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">J sends us a great question regarding leaving an intern position:</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">My husband is a physician finishing residency this June. He has taken a job out of state, and we will be moving. I am currently about a year and a half into an intern architect job that I found about 3 months out of grad school, and I love my job. I feel very loyal to the company, enjoy the work that I'm doing, and I am sad that I will have to leave. My husband and I weighed our options and decided that as great as my job is, his new job opportunity and the possible opportunities for our family in the new city were too good to pass up. <br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" /></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">First of all, J, it's great (and a relief) that you're able to leave this job under circumstances that are neither desperate nor disgruntled. You're actually in a great position to leave your firm. Your approach with your firm and your manager is straightforward and polite: </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>"I wanted to let you know that my husband has accepted a position out of state. We're both really excited about this for him, but unfortunately it means I have to leave this firm. I've really enjoyed working here with such great, talented people and have learned so much. I'd like to work here as long as I can before we move in June, and I'm glad to train anyone new that you bring on board before I leave. I'd also like to make sure that I can rely on you for a good reference--if you're comfortable doing so--when I apply to other firms in our new location."</i></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Interns and architects leave firms because of a spouse's job all the time. It's a reason to leave a firm that generally makes for no hard feelings, so I see little to no reason to worry about a graceful exit from this firm.</span>Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-39420247809504627282013-03-16T19:37:00.001-06:002013-03-16T19:37:44.800-06:00Family emergencies: If you have to go, go.<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">My husband's mother just died a few days ago, and it's been a tough few days. We'll miss a few days of work next week attending her funeral out of town, and we're not missing a moment of sleep about that. I've blogged a lot lately about needing to help your team and firm out by working extra, but the other side of that coin is know that work will always be there, and sometimes you really need to be with your family.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">A new coworker of mine had a family emergency on her second day of work at my firm. She got a call from her mother that her father had been taken to the emergency room with chest pains, and she began to wonder<i>: well crap, it's my second day of a new job and I'm about to leave all of a sudden? Well, maybe it's not that serious.... </i></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">She mentioned it to her project manager, who immediately said "OMFG go to your dad right now! We'll be here when you're able to come back!" My coworker went to be by her dad's side (he ended up being fine eventually), and she returned to work the next day. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">My husband's mother called him early in the morning from the hospital to say that she didn't think she had long, and she needed him to come that very day. He bought a $500 plane ticket and flew to her side that day--the deadlines and emails and meeting notes cold wait. He spent the evening with her in the hospital, talking and eventually saying goodbye. The next morning, she had become unresponsive, and by the end of the day she was gone. When he returned, he said he was glad he'd left when he did: "Best $500 I've ever spent."</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">When real life or tragedy intervenes and things get scary or tough, it's okay to leave the office and tend to those matters. The work will be there when you're ready and able.</span>Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-53290562781069921252013-03-04T05:58:00.000-07:002013-03-04T05:58:00.430-07:00Further thoughts on recent posts: getting licensed and having a life<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">As I head out of a big deadline into a week-long business trip, I've been mulling over comments and emails I've received regarding two recent posts. The first was the post about possibly being penalized for having a life outside of work and not always putting work first. Comments and emails I've received seemed to push back on unreasonable bosses and firms, but they also seemed to advocate for a sensible balance of life and work. Will a few extra hours here and there leave your children and spouse in an angst-filled place for which they'll need years of therapy in the future? Probably not. Will missing big events (little league games, ballet recitals, birthday parties) affect them deeply and rob you of valuable time with your family? Probably so. Again, it's about balance. Being able to pitch in when needed at the last minute is a sign you can be counted on, but when your job seems to be more about being a firefighter (that is, you're having to pitch in at the last minute several times a month), then it's time to draw the line.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I'd like to hear from more people about whether or not to get licensed. So far I've heard from someone who had a decent list of reasons not to get licensed and from someone who sounds like they're really burned out from too many years and too many bad projects. Are there any interns out there who have several years' experience but decided not to get licensed, or can share why they haven't yet gotten licensed?</span></div>
Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-49405688466535525272013-02-25T20:07:00.002-07:002013-02-25T20:07:59.775-07:00Lulu's question to you: Are there reasons not to get licensed?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I recently debated licensure with some of my more-seasoned colleagues, and it became (unintentionally) a heated debate. As we were discussing interns delaying or just not getting licensed, it began to occur to me that there may be reasons not to get licensed. So I'm asking you: is or are there any reason(s) not to pass the ARE and become a licensed architect?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">While I heartily advocate licensure, I realize that it may not be the right choice for everyone. So what would make it not a right choice for someone? Tell me via email or in the comments--I'm betting there are some interesting situations out there that my colleagues and I haven't thought about.</span></div>
Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-64344723387771268422013-02-11T05:03:00.000-07:002013-02-11T05:03:00.436-07:00Will having a life hold me back?<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I was talking with an intern recently who is married with two small children. She overheard her boss mention that she (the boss) might send the intern on an overnight trip to meet with some clients because another architect couldn't attend. The intern mentioned it to her husband that night, and he was uncomfortable with her being gone overnight. For her and her spouse, family is important, and neither she nor her husband liked the idea of her being away overnight for work. Her work schedule with her firm is oriented around her family life as it is; she works through lunch so she can leave early to pick up her kids from day care, and she rarely if ever works overtime. The intern expressed her concerns to me regarding her future career path, and even her job security: <i style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.0078125);">"If I make family a priority, is that going to hurt me at work?"</i>
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Lulu Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14713133001416080918noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685608788672533401.post-62000642504532057722013-02-04T05:31:00.000-07:002013-02-04T05:31:00.034-07:00What to do when you're over your head...on a project<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Another inevitable fact of being an intern is that you will end up getting in over your head on a project. Perhaps your boss likes what you do and how well you do it, so s/he gives you a bigger role with more responsibilities. Or perhaps a small project turns out to be like an onion: it has lots more layers that you can see from the outside, and peeling those layers makes you cry. Either way, there are few things worse than feeling overwhelmed and unable to handle a project, especially early in your career when you're still developing your skill set. It leaves you feeling adrift and anxious, and it might even leave you thinking you're going to get fired if anyone sees this or figures it out. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The first thing to remember when running a project as an intern is that a licensed architect must supervise your work. On a regular basis, a licensed architect needs to look at what you're doing, answer questions, provide feedback, and review most if not everything you send out of the office. That process can be in person or electronic, but it needs to happen. If someone isn't doing that, then you're going to have to manage up. Send out the message to your office, send urgent emails, and even stand in the doorway/walkway of your manager's office/cubicle and insist that someone review what you're doing and answer questions. If you have a few years' experience, you may think that you're answering everything just fine and doing well, but unbeknownst to you there are repercussions to what you're asking and writing in your emails and RFIs and documents. The seasoned eye of a competent licensed architect can stop the in-over-your-head phenomenon before it ever starts.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I mentioned there are few worse things that feeling over your head. One of those few worse things is having your mistakes discovered after the fact. If you're feeling like you're not able to do the right thing on a project, or you don't have the skill to respond to a project's challenges, the time to ask for help is the moment your start to feel that oh-dear-God-what-have-I-gotten-myself-into feeling. Asking for input, review, feedback, and advice is one of the primary ways that architects learn. Ask for help before it becomes a problem, and ask for help when it's a problem. It's okay to admit ignorance within the walls of your firm. If you're unlicensed with less than, say, seven years' experience, no one is expecting you to know everything. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Frankly, no one's ever expecting you to know everything, even after you're licensed. Architecture is a big, wide, deep field, and you can't know it all. I have 12.5 years' experience and manage large projects, and yet I still will ask my boss for help in writing a good email or making a judgment call on how to make a floor plan work. My boss has almost 20 years' experience and is one of the principals of our firm, and yet he still asks me questions about the ADA and various healthcare codes and guidelines. Everyone asks for help and advice--it's just the nature of architectural practice.</span></div>
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